HOUSE RULES & FAQ
Everything to know before you walk in.
Every guest agrees to these at the door, and our hosts are on the floor all night to back them up.
Ask first
No means no, maybe means no, and nobody touches without asking. Our hosts keep an eye on the room so you can relax.
Your pace
Flirt, dance, watch or play. Your night, your pace, and our hosts make introductions so nobody ends up on the wall.
Couples first
Tickets are sold by category and capped, so the room stays balanced. Everyone shows a photo ID at the door, always.
Kept private
No cameras on the floor, no names shared, and your email is never sold. What happens in here stays in here. Always.
FAQ · NEW HERE
First time? Start here.
Plenty of guests are brand new to the lifestyle. These are the questions we hear most.
Do I have to play?
Never. Plenty of guests come to flirt, dance and people-watch. Nobody assumes a thing, and nobody ever touches without asking you first.
Who comes?
Couples, single women and lifestyle-friendly guests, from curious first-timers to our longtime regulars. Rooms are always couples-first.
Can single men come?
At select events, by approval and in limited numbers, so the room stays comfortable. Mutuals also has nights for unicorns and bulls.
FAQ · TICKETS & ENTRY
Getting in.
Tickets are sold by category and capped, so buy early and bring the right ID.
How do I get in?
You must be 21+ with a valid government photo ID: driver's license, state ID or passport. Copies and photos of IDs are not accepted.
Where is the party?
For play parties, the address is sent to ticket holders 24 hours before doors. For social nights, the venue is shared with ticket holders before the event.
Can I get a refund?
Tickets are sold through Eventbrite, and all ticket sales are final. Life happens, though, so please reach out before the event and we'll do whatever we can to help you out.
FAQ · AT THE PARTY
Once you're inside.
Dress the part, bring what you need, and let the hosts handle the rest.
What should I wear?
Dress to impress. Sheer and risqué are more than welcome. Leave gym clothes, shorts, work boots and sandals at home. Themed nights list their dress code right on the event page.
What can I bring?
Play parties are BYOB. Small bags only, and every bag is checked at the door. Drugs or weapons mean immediate removal, and guests who arrive visibly intoxicated won't be let in.
Party or social night?
Play parties are at private clubs with playrooms, and they're BYOB. Social nights like Mutuals are at lounges with a full bar. Flirty, not physical and a perfect first step.
THE LUSTLETTER · INNER CIRCLE
Tickets go to the list first.
By the time a party hits Instagram, the best tickets are gone. Get on the list and hear about it before everyone else.
Email only, sent discreetly. Nothing spicy in the subject line (we save that for inside), and one click gets you out any time. P.S. You read the fine print. The secret word is Keyhole.
WHAT LIST MEMBERS GET
The Inner Circle
♥ Early access before public release
♥ First seats at Mutuals
♥ List-only pricing and drops
♥ Behind the scenes from every party
Lifestyle parties for couples, unicorns and the lifestyle-friendly. New York, New Jersey, Connecticut and Florida.
Strictly 21+. Valid photo ID required at every event.
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