New York · New Jersey · Connecticut · Florida
Some nights you tell your friends about. This isn't one of them.
Curated play parties and social nights for couples, unicorns and the lifestyle-friendly. Vetted guest lists, discreet venues, and a room worth getting dressed up for.
Tickets are capped by category to keep the room balanced. Blink and your category is gone.
Word travels fast.
WAYS TO PLAY
Pick your kind of night.
Dip a toe at a social night or dive in at a private club. Every night is couples-first, 21+ and judgment-free.
Play Parties
Private clubs with playrooms, fresh linens, security and a DJ. You bring the bottle, we do the rest.
Play party
Mutuals
Couples meet couples at Mutuals, plus unicorns and bulls. No swiping ever again.
Social night
On the Water
A private deck, the skyline and a boat full of people who get it. Summer sailings, sunsets included.
Social night
Destinations
Our biggest nights of the year, like New Year's Eve. Worth booking a flight for.
Play party
NEW · MUTUALS
Stop swiping. Start meeting.
The lifestyle apps are full of profiles that never answer. Mutuals puts real, verified couples in one room, already matched with couples who want what you want. Looking for a unicorn or a bull? There's a Mutuals night for that too.
How it works: take a two-minute questionnaire, meet your matches round by round, and wake up to your mutual matches.
TWO NIGHTS, TWO WAYS TO MATCH
Pick your match.
♥ Dec 16: Couples + Couples
♥ Jan 21: Couples + Unicorns & Bulls
Seats capped per match type
ON THE CALENDAR
Don't hear about it after.
Couples tickets go first. When a category sells out, it's gone, so grab yours before your group chat does.
Looking for a party near you? See our NYC lifestyle parties and Long Island lifestyle parties.
HOUSE RULES
Your privacy is the whole point.
Every guest agrees to these at the door, and our hosts are on the floor all night to back them up.
Ask first
No means no, maybe means no, and nobody touches without asking. Our hosts keep an eye on the room so you can relax.
Your pace
Flirt, dance, watch or play. Your night, your pace, and our hosts make introductions so nobody ends up on the wall.
Couples first
Tickets are sold by category and capped, so the room stays balanced. Everyone shows a photo ID at the door, always.
Kept private
No cameras on the floor, no names shared, and your email is never sold. What happens in here stays in here. Always.
YOUR FIRST NIGHT
Your night, start to finish.
Never been to a party like this? Here's how a typical night runs, so the only surprises are the good kind.
1. Walk in
Show your ID and ticket, check your coat and grab a drink. Our hosts say hi to every first-timer.
2. Mingle
Hosts make introductions and a quick icebreaker gets everyone talking. No standing in the corner.
3. Hit the floor
The DJ turns it up. Dance, flirt and find the people you clicked with as the room heats right up.
4. Your call
Private rooms open later at play parties. Stay, play or go home happy. Each option is a good one.
THE FREAK SQUAD
Get paid to party.
Love our nights? Join the Freak Squad and get your own ticket code, a cut of every ticket it sells, free entry and free merch.
THE LUSTLETTER · INNER CIRCLE
Tickets go to the list first.
By the time a party hits Instagram, the best tickets are gone. Get on the list and hear about it before everyone else.
Email only, sent discreetly. Nothing spicy in the subject line (we save that for inside), and one click gets you out any time.
WHAT LIST MEMBERS GET
The Inner Circle
♥ Early access before public release
♥ First seats at Mutuals
♥ List-only pricing and drops
♥ Behind the scenes from every party
Lifestyle parties for couples, unicorns and the lifestyle-friendly. New York, New Jersey, Connecticut and Florida.
Strictly 21+. Valid photo ID required at every event.
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