Lifestyle parties on Long Island.
Fanz 4 Freaks hosts play parties and social nights for couples, unicorns and the lifestyle-curious on Long Island. We've thrown parties in towns across Nassau and Suffolk counties, with the same vetted guest lists and balanced rooms we bring to the city.
The next Long Island night.
Our next Long Island date hasn't been announced yet. LustLetter members get it first, along with early access before tickets open to everyone else. Until then, our NYC parties are an easy trip in.
Two kinds of nights.
Play parties
Held at established Long Island lifestyle clubs with private rooms, security and staff. Play is welcome but never expected, and consent comes first every time.
Social nights
Relaxed nights at bars and lounges where everyone fills out a short questionnaire first, and we seat you with people who match what you're looking for. Drinks and conversation only.
Nassau and Suffolk.
Nassau County
Close to the city line and easy to reach from Queens. We've hosted in several Nassau towns and will be back.
Suffolk County
From the North Shore to the South Shore, no trip into the city required. We've hosted in several Suffolk towns too.
Venues are private. The exact location goes to confirmed guests before the event and is never posted publicly.
First time at a lifestyle party?
Plenty of our guests are new. Start with these:
- Your first lifestyle party: what to expect
- What to wear to a lifestyle party
- How to talk to your partner about the lifestyle
- House rules and FAQ
Long Island party FAQ.
Are there swinger and lifestyle parties on Long Island?
Yes. Fanz 4 Freaks hosts lifestyle parties in Nassau and Suffolk counties for couples and singles who are open to swinging or meeting other open-minded people. Dates are announced to LustLetter members first.
Where are your Long Island parties held?
At private venues, including lifestyle clubs for play parties and bars or lounges for social nights. The address goes to confirmed guests before the event.
Who can come?
Adults 21 and over with a valid ID. Couples, single women (unicorns) and single men (bulls) are all welcome, with ticket caps by category to keep every room balanced.
Do I have to play?
No. Plenty of guests come to dance, drink and meet people. Our social nights don't include play at all, and at play parties "no" is always a complete answer.
How much are tickets?
Prices depend on the event and your category. You'll find them on each event's page.
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